I want to know what to do about being single. I am 26! and never had a girlfriend not through lack of trying though! People are often surprised because they say i’m good looking but i have always had self esteem issues as a result of being bullied at school. i have tried hypnosis cds to make me more confident and they have made only a little difference I often get the feeling I am not supposed to be with anyone. i have read many books on confidence, dating and seduction but nothing seems to work or fit. i’m never sure if i’m trying too hard or not hard enough. i have good personal hygiene, dress well, can make most people laugh and am loyal and accepting of most people. where am i going wrong?
--- Name withheld on request
Dear friend,
The thing about you is, you are unique. I'd have suggested to visit a psychiatrist but that will not work in your case. All you need to do is mingle with like minded people. Take up a hobby and nurture it. Try to make friends who will respect you for what you are. Being bullied at school is quite a teenage nightmare but you have to leave it behind and get going with your life. I'd suggest you to get introduced to virtual gaming where most people gain confidence.
